Private relationship clarity

More information, less assumption.

We make a discreet first contact and show you exactly what happened, without interpreting what it means.

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Private request · We never ask for your social-media password.

A little clarity can change the conversation.

The place to begin

Free First Contact

Start with one discreet step and see what actually happens.

FREE

One first contact, with no pressure to continue.

We begin by following them. You stay informed and choose whether to take the next step.

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What is included

We follow them first.
You see whether they follow back or do not respond.
A public comment may be used only when public content provides a natural, ordinary, non-sensitive context.
You see exactly what happened. No private message is sent during the free check.

If you want to go further:

Continue the Conversation $19.90 one time

Private messaging starts only after you choose to continue. No subscription or automatic renewal.

What you’ll see

Your private case, in one clear timeline.

After you submit, your private status page shows each recorded step. We’ll email you when the status changes.

Private caseInstagram · @example

In progress

Request receivedYour private status page is ready.
Follow sentWe’ll email you when the status changes.
Waiting for follow-backNo private message is sent during the free check.

Continue the Conversation$19.90 one time

Private messaging is optional and begins only after you choose to continue.

No subscription. No automatic renewal.

Concrete operating rules

How we keep this safe

Trust comes from clear limits, visible actions, and your ability to stop future work.

Read the full process

Outgoing public comments and private messages are reviewed before they are recorded as sent.
No private message is included in the free check.
One case covers one submitted account on one submitted platform. We do not search for other accounts or private contact details.
We refuse harassment, threats, stalking, coercion, impersonation, sexual solicitation, sensitive-data requests, and requests involving minors.
You can stop future SIBW actions. Earlier actions cannot be undone and remain visible in the case timeline.
Exact recorded actions and replies remain visible without interpretation of intent, loyalty, or interest.

Frequently asked questions

Who will contact them?

We use an active account appropriate for the platform and interaction. The exact account is assigned when your request is handled, so you do not need to choose or evaluate the person behind it. You will be able to see what action was taken and what actually happened.

What happens in the free check?

We start by following the account. You can see whether they follow back or do not respond. A public comment is optional and may be used only when public content provides a natural, ordinary, non-sensitive context. No private message is included in the free check.

Is any private message included for free?

No. Private messaging starts only if you choose to continue after the free check.

What if they do not follow back or respond?

No response is still part of what happened. You see the observable outcome without any interpretation of what it means.

When does the $19.90 conversation begin?

It is one private conversation session, lasting up to 48 hours from the first private message actually sent, or until a clear observable outcome is reached, or you choose to stop—whichever happens first. Payment, queue time, and preparation do not start the timer, and temporary non-response does not end it early. There is no subscription, automatic renewal, guaranteed reply, continuous live coverage, or fixed reply count.

Will they know I requested this?

We do not tell them who requested the check. We only carry out the interaction itself and report what actually happened.

Want to see what happens?

Start with the free public check. You decide whether to go any further.

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Private request · No social-media password needed.

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